the thing that hurts the most is loving a loved one
i'm not talking about you know break-ups and relationships..
i'm talking about having your loved ones who lost their life and you get scarred knowng that they can never be replaced or be next to you when you need them the most
it's so hard to believe that they have left this face of the earth
because it happened so sudden..so unexpected
i mean it's not just sadness..it's strange and baffling
it feels wrong
the ultimate challenge in a person's life is handling the grief of losing someone they love..to cope with this kind of tragedy
what's left are memories
a sweater,chair,photos or even a scrap of paper with a note
and also in your heart..as cliched as that sounds it's actually true
whta i have learnt is when a someone lose their loved ones,
give them space to think..to shut down emotionally
and when they are ready then just be there for them
just being there keeping quiet is better than giving that person a bunch of cliches..that's my aunt's advice
losing someone you just gives you a reminder to appreaciate the people around you..
to treasure them as you won't know if they are going to be with you for long ya noe?
my aunt said that we have to say i love you to people around you at the most random moments to show that you are thinking about them and that you still care about them
so i wanna say a biiigg I LOVE YOU!! to all my friends and family
and i am thankful and lucky to have you by my side making me laugh and the most stupidest things and cry when finally realise and understand about the fears and confusion going on in my life
